This week, Achdus Magazine speaks with Toms River resident and noted therapist Mrs. Shaindy Schachter, a respected licensed psychotherapist who specializes in working with children and adolescents, as well as providing guidance and support to parents. She has spent decades helping children and parents build stronger, healthier relationships. In this exclusive interview, Mrs. Schachter shares her journey from a young teacher in Boro Park to a licensed social worker and therapist, offering insights into emotional regulation, parenting strategies, and the importance of fostering connection within the home. She emphasizes that therapy is not about fixing problems, but about equipping children with the skills they need to thrive, while guiding parents to be present, consistent, and emotionally attuned.
Through her work in schools, medical centers, and private practice, Mrs. Schachter has seen firsthand the challenges children face in today’s fast-paced, high-stress world. She provides practical advice for parents on how to support their children’s emotional growth, establish meaningful routines, and maintain genuine, everyday connections that strengthen family bonds.
In the following conversation, she opens up about the importance of presence over perfection, how to help children navigate anxiety, and why consistent, thoughtful parenting is the foundation for raising confident, resilient kids.


